Self Development

 The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People

"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" book written by Stephen R. Covey.

The book "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" tells about self-development and self-help. Which habit should we adopt so that we can get success?

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7 Habits Highly Effective People:-

Habit 1: Be Proactive:-     

The author first tells us about the habit of being proactive. This habit tells us about choosing our attitude and taking control over our effectiveness. Proactive people accept their responsibility. To become a proactive person, we should put our efforts in the places where we can do something.

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind:-     

We should start with our destination. The author says that we should use our imagination to reach our vision.

Habit gives us two advices. We should do whatever we do keeping in mind what will be the end result of it. This principle is useful for individuals as well as businesses.

Habit 3: Put First Things First:-     

In the previous chapter we explained how we set our goals by identifying our values ​​and clarifying our objectives. In this chapter we should focus on them from time to time to achieve our goals day by day.

We will need our willpower to maintain discipline and focus to achieve our goals, even when we don't feel like working.

Habit 4: Think Win/Win:-     

To build a good working relationship, we must commit ourselves to creating win-win situations.

The author tells us about 6 human interaction patterns:

Win Win: Both people win. Compromise and solution are beneficial for both.

Win and Lose: If I win, you lose. Such people use power to win.

Lose and Win: If I lose, you win. These people find power in being popular and accepting people.

Lose and Lose: Both lose. When two people who are win and lose meet, egos come in and the result is loss for both.

Win: Winners don't see who they have to defeat, or who they have to win from. For them, what matters is what they wanted and what they got.

Win and No Deal: If you can't make a mutually beneficial agreement, there is no deal.

So if you want to achieve a win-win situation, you need to focus on the results rather than getting stuck in specific methods.

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood:-     

In this chapter, the author argues that we must understand before we can be understood, and in order to understand, we must learn to listen. The author states that communication experts estimate that: 10% of communication is represented by our words. 30% is represented by our tone of voice. 60% is represented by our body language.

Habit 6: Synergize:-     

To understand others we need rapport which allows us to open up, open up and be creative.

To develop this habit we need to look at Habits 4 and 5 and apply them to our daily lives, such as thinking about win-win and understanding others. When you do this you put yourself in their shoes and understand their problems and find solutions that can help them. This is a change that gives them what they need and makes your relationship stronger.

Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw:-     

In this habit, change is given more importance. This habit is surrounded by all our habits.

There are 4 dimensions of our nature

Physical dimension: Change yourself physically. To change, eat well, take good rest, build your patience level, flexibility, and strength through regular exercise.

Spiritual dimension: Change yourself spiritually. To change, meditate daily, talk to nature, motivate yourself to listen to good music, and involve yourself more in good literature.

Mental dimension: Change yourself mentally. To change, read good books, keep a journal of your own thoughts, experiences, and insights, watch TV as much as it has a positive impact on your life and your mind.

Social and emotional dimension: To emotionally renew yourself, you can do these things: Understand other people deeply, contribute as much as possible to good work, do things that benefit people, change your mindset so that you can help others succeed.

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7 Habits Of Highly Effective People Book Quotes  :-

• “Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he can and should be and he will become as he can and should be.”
• “To change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions.”
• “If I really want to improve my situation, I can work on the one thing over which I have control - myself.”
• “Happiness, like unhappiness, is a proactive choice.”
• “Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her.”
• “How different our lives are when we really know what is deeply important to us, and keeping that picture in mind, we manage ourselves each day to be and to do what really matters most.”
• “How you treat the one reveals how you regard the many, because everyone is ultimately a one.”

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